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分手快乐,释怀也是一种幸福

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梁静茹的声音,很清透。就像来是马来西亚清新的风,让人无比惬意的感觉。这张专辑里的很多歌曲堪称经典。也是她的代表作吧。
  

分手快乐,或许和它最投缘。记忆中唯一一首我能唱完歌词的一首。第一次唱给朋友听,第一次去K歌,第一次在朋友生日聚会上,每次都是这首歌。或许觉得有点不适宜,不过不自觉会先想到这首歌。
  

当我心中默念着歌词的时候,我已经深深体味在歌词里的意境里了。旋律,很低沉很舒缓的钢琴乐音悄然滑过琴键,还有一阵悠扬的弦乐飘过你的耳朵。梁静茹伴着这曼妙的钢琴声和弦乐,轻悠地唱起了第一个乐音。接着,便是愈加深情演绎,渐渐地感觉到一种力量在支撑着她,唱下去的勇气。
  
分手快乐,或许很多人认为是一首悲伤的歌。失去爱人的一种忧伤。其实,在静茹的歌声里,我听到了一种释怀后的快乐。挥别错的才能和对的相逢 /离开旧爱像坐慢车 /看透彻了心就会是晴朗的 /没人能把谁的幸福没收/你发誓你会活的有笑容。虽然离别,是很残忍。但告别过去,才能迎接更美好的未来。紧握的沙子,还是会从指缝间悄悄溜走,而手放开,何尝不是一种寻找幸福的方式。成全了沙子的自有,也成全了自己的快乐。
  
时常会听到朋友的分手结局。就像小说的结局一样无限感伤。我知道,很多时候的分开,不是出自他们的内心。现实往往是最冷酷无情的。听说,他们是很投缘的恋人,彼此都钟情于同样的文学作家。迷路了,他会帮她指路,走出一个个迷宫式的路口。被噩梦惊醒时,他会安慰她,让她心平静下来。不要害怕这么迷惘的梦境。虽然他们的爱情是如此美好。彼此的心是如此善良。但后来,他还是放开了她的手,成全了她的自由。希望她能自由地去飞,寻找到希望的出口,抉择一个她所憧憬的生活。心亦痛并快乐着。分开的彼此,或许只能暗自默默祝福对方。沉默地看着彼此,只是一阵又一阵的静默。双方隐忍着各自的痛苦。用最灿烂的笑容告诉彼此,生活很美好。作为一个局外人,看着这样的结局,心隐隐作痛。如果不是分手,故事还会延续么?
  
委曲求全,换取的爱情,很是艰难维持。不论是对谁而言,都要为此做出很大的牺牲和让步。这样的结合,能是一种幸福么?当某一天,彼此谁也无法再次妥协,分手也是唯一的出口。如果真的憧憬幸福的味道,那就必须学会释怀,放开心中那强烈的欲望。只是平和地去接受一个抉择,或许是开始,抑或是结束。无论是哪种宿命,都是对一种幸福的诠释。失去,不一定会不快乐;拥有,不一定会很快乐。幸福是一种遥远而抽象的事物,若即若离,当幸福远离你身旁的时候,我们应该释怀着去接受。
  

很多时候的分手,彼此都是笑着告别,希望给对方一个最美丽的尾声。我念想起东京爱情故事里的一个经典桥段。多年后的一个冬天,莉香和完治在东京的某条大街上邂逅,消失很久后的莉香,看到完治手上的那枚戒指,便知道这个童话故事已经宣告结束。在完治的心里,莉香是一个很特别的女子,每次都能看到她那灿烂的微笑,没有哀伤的笑容。但这迷离的爱情在那天已经幻灭。虽然彼此都还心存一份异样的感动。但是莉香的脸上还是绽开了笑容,望着彼此,相视而笑,寒暄了几句。就这样,双方约定好倒数三秒,各自转身,不许对方回望自己的身影,走向一条相反的人生道路。看到此情此景,眼眶里闪动着晶莹的泪花,心是一阵冰冷刺骨,和这冬天一样寒冷,没有温度。看着他们愈见远去的背影,看着他们依然纯真的笑容,快乐地分手,祝福对方能拥有一个美丽人生。多么催人泪下的抉择,这实在需要很大的勇气。面对种种的不舍和眷恋,把那份挚爱珍藏心底,内心释怀,让对方自由地飞翔,经历一段刻骨的人生。或许,多年后,这段珍贵的回忆依然很深刻。那刻,自己也会感受到对方的幸福,替TA开心,欣然微笑。新的人生旅程上,TA也会邂逅一场烟花似的华美爱情。

祝福所有分手的人们,微笑着告别眼前的人,能寻找到一个别样幸福的出口。

 

p.s或许是突然又怀念这歌了,所以也写在这里。仅此而已。 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 

 

 

 



 

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    我又来了。
    另,怎么字体看起来不是很舒服啊。我想有可能是IE的问题。

    re:but i like it..that’s enough..ha..u r so funny..

    Comment by an9 — 2008-10-06 @ 17:28

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    新家看上去不错的样子

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    蛮好看的~

    re:merci,merci…

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    哈,秋天了!在感伤…

    re:yeah..sorrow

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    静如的歌以前听吧 很对味 ….现在听着也好 但那也只是好了

    re:sometimes.just a period of particular time

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    近来一切可好?变化好大,以后有时间会常来。;-)

    re:ha .merci.thx.

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    分手,快乐,够经典

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